Have you spent your life living second-hand? Living through others or for others? Is there an emptiness or regret inside you when you are alone? Do you dream of success and self-satisfaction? Do you have a deep well of creativity inside you which is bursting to surge to the surface, but you can’t release it?
You’ve come to just the right place at First-Hand Life.
Sacrifice is in our DNA
Most people in developed countries are indoctrinated in other notions that it is admirable to make sacrifices for others. Sacrificing is in our blood. The ancients in Greece, the Middle East and Rome made sacrifices regularly to appease the gods or when a King died. They might sacrifice an animal or a human being as the Incas in South America did.
Wearing the Masks of Social Approval
We all seek approval from our peers. We all want to be famous and respected. But society demands that we behave in a certain way, which sometimes goes against the grain. The structure of traditional work – training, getting qualifications, and working towards promotion – is an unpleasant necessity for many people. This conspiracy that we all have to work to live means that many of us can spend between 30 and 50 years devoting ourselves to an hourly wage to line someone else’s pocket. At the end of this marathon, we collapse with exhaustion – burnout – and find that all our toil has produced little except status and material support to live comfortably: a house, a car, children in college, some respect!
Neglecting our loved ones and passions
Full-time work gives us little time or energy for our families or friends. We neglect our hobbies and suppress our passionate interests. It dominates our lives – the average person spends 60-70% of their adult life at work. In honesty, most of us are poorly paid slaves toiling away to keep our families afloat and save money for our retirement. But once we retire, recovering from this imprisonment affects our health adversely, so we cannot truly enjoy our release.
The Internet is our future
With the word as it is – wars and conflicts breaking out everywhere, corruption and crime on the increase, pandemics and natural disasters wiping whole communities out – we must ensure that we have a place on the Internet. In times of chaos, this is the one place we can find a safe refuge, and it is becoming safer and safer through websites like this one.
If you have developed some computer skills during your second-hand life, that’s wonderful! But if you haven’t, don’t worry. The perfect training can be yours at the press of a button at no cost. If you don’t have a PC, no worries either. Your smartphone will get you started, and then you can move towards getting your own computer, which will make your new digital identity easier to spread.
The author, Ayn Rand, was the champion of living first-hand, for yourself and of your thoughts, creativity and judgements. She said through one of her characters, Howard Roarke:
“I could die for you. But I couldn’t and wouldn’t, live for you.”
The Fountainhead
Living first-hand and finding true happiness in self-satisfaction and self-fullness allows us to be much more compassionate with others.
True Lasting Happiness
Every human being is searching to find true happiness. That’s what we all have in common, and in a way, that is what unites us as the human race. Perhaps you can remember how you feel or felt when you were engrossed in your hobby or passion. You feel great and powerful, whole, content. So, I will introduce you to a simple and cheap way to rekindle that passion and earn a living online. You can easily become an expert in your chosen niche and communicate directly with others who share your passion or enjoyment.
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Hi there Athena,
Thanks for your offer but I’m not really at that stage quite yet. I’ll keep you in mind for later.
Your post resonates deeply with those seeking fulfillment. The exploration of sacrifice, societal masks, and neglect hits home. I’m intrigued by the idea of transitioning from a traditional work structure to a digital identity. Could you share more insights on how the Internet, especially platforms like this, becomes a refuge in chaotic times? Thanks for inspiring us to embrace a life of self-satisfaction and genuine happiness!
Hi Stratos, thank you for your contribution. I’m glad the home page of First-Hand-Life resonates with you.
Most of us live second-hand lives, sacrificing ourselves and our passions for others and because we are indoctrinated to think it is a desirable way to live. Our deep well of creativity and originality is buried and we think that we will revive it when we retire. However, not many people know how to rekindle it properly. To create an Internet business we need an impeccable level of motivation to start up, sustain and perfect our enterprise single-handedly. So, first and foremost, we must find the value of our ‘work.’
Wealthy Affiliate is the perfect platform for all Internet business needs exactly because of the motivation of the founders Kyle and Carson. They had a pure desire to help people succeed and so we have a flourishing community, non-stop support and teams of experts at our beck and call. If we have a problem we can always get wise advice and solve it. So, we are all bound to succeed with this amazing comprehensive platform.
Hope this answers your question.
Blessings and Success in the Year of the Dragon 🐉 and the Affiliate. 👩🏼🔧
I have been having a good look around your website overall and it is really connecting with me.
The idea of living a first hand life and finding joy in what we are truly passionate about gives me a lot of inspiration.
I have been exploring similar paths myself and trying to make an honest living online, and mixing it with your hobbies can only be a good thing. It’s a journey after all, isn’t it?
How do you make the balance between pursuing your passions and ensuring they remain enjoyable when they also need to be profitable? I would really like hear more about your experiences on this.
I will come back again, thanks and keep up the great work.
Thanks Chris. Glad you’ve got something from this new site. I wasn’t quite sure if I’d got the approach right. First-hand living is the only way to real success and happiness. Absolutely.
Your question? Your passion, what sets you alight and engages you 100%, is connected to your true nature. So, once you are living life first-hand and constantly tapping into your unique creativity, you connect with your true nature and once you get a taste of it, you never want to disconnect again. Your passion will get brighter and brighter, and the happiness and joy intensify.
It’s important to practice mindfulness (F-H-L articles to come but see https://jambhalawealth.com in the meantime) to calm your busy, easily distracted intellectual mind. But then just set everything up to unswervingly satisfy your thinking and your feelings/judgements. Your inner diamond will get brighter and brighter with each moment you spend doing what you were meant to do, I promise.
The Universe is a positive one so transmit your essence positively and it will be reflected back to you! It can’t fail if you forge a great relationship with it.
Blessings for your F-H-L and appreciation for this thoughtful comment.
Linden